Its never a competition, but people are reasonably shocked to see a new king of the leaderboard. Don't take it harshly, but just have fun knowing you've made history!
To make amends? Well, apologies are always good, but they don't quite fix the situation, now do they? Especially if it's something serious, like you killed somebody. That can never be undone.
leo @'d me in a thread about his last dream, stating he was passionately making out with a guy he used to know and then woke up while reaching for his crotch, and said that i would "know who 'tf' it is"
and of course i know, it's luke