..With things in general, basically. I don't know where to start, so I'll just write what comes to mind.
-I still don't have a job, but I feel there's no point in looking for one now because I move into school in about a month's time.. I used to have a job at the library but I quit it at the beginning of my senior year (September 2011) to focus more on school-related work and activities, and now I kind of regret that. I'm also not really doing a whole lot of fun summer activities with other people. I just wish I could spend my time being more productive. My favorite motto is probably: "work hard, rest hard," but right now I feel like I'm doing neither.
-I don't feel confident that my current college major is right for me. I'm majoring in a field called Engineering Physics, and I plan (or have been planning, rather,) to be some sort of scientist (I definitely want to go to grad school). It's just annoying for me, because when I tell people my major, they think, "Oh, it's engineering!" and I'm like, "No, it's a science degree with an engineering background."
And I don't even know if that's what I want to do with my life, anyway.. I want to do something enjoyable, to have a job where I feel guilty when receiving a paycheck.. At the same time, though, I want to leave a legacy behind, do something so amazing in life that people will remember me...
-I also don't feel very confident that I picked the right university to attend.. I'm going to The Ohio State University, and let me just say that I don't really care at all for football. I do, however, care about making friends, because to me that's like basically the most important thing about college (and maybe life as well). I'll go to the games so that I can hang out with people, but I probably won't care too much for the games themselves. Another thing is that this university is kind of known for it's parties.. Like a said earlier, I love to socialize, but I simply don't drink or smoke. I don't have anything against people who do (to an extent, anyway,) but it's just something that I've never felt the need to do.
-I love my parents and all, but sometimes I just get annoyed. My mom has almost no respect for my privacy. Example: I was writing thank-you letters for several people who gave me gifts at my graduation party, and she read through all of them and even critiqued them without me knowing until after she did so... Not that I wrote anything I didn't want her to see, but it's just a little aggravating for me when things like this happen.
My dad, on the other hand, is basically a really boring person. He can crack a couple jokes here and there, but he has like no personality. He's an engineer, and a very smart person, but when I see myself going into an engineering field (I know I said earlier it's a science field, but technically speaking the degree is earned via the College of Engineering at my school), I get scared that I will lose social skills. Yes, I know it's funny to some and maybe a bad stereotype, but honestly, pretty much all engineers I've met just aren't.. adventurous and outgoing. I even shadowed an aerospace engineer who has his Ph.D and works for NASA, and even though he's a brilliant man, his personality is just.. 'meh,' for lack of better words.
Personally, I want to be the life of a group.. I want to be a leader. I don't want to spend 8 hours a day in a cubicle starring at a computer screen. I want to be, or at least contribute to, the life of a party; and I want to be known by people. I feel as though I don't want to be the best engineering or scientist that I can be (if that is what I want to do); rather, I want to be the best person that I can be. Is that a bad thing, to want to leave behind an impression for current and future generations? Or am I just trying to gain popularity for no real legitimate reason?
I just feel so much happier when I'm around people who are outgoing.. I wish I could be like them, to always have something to say or a story to share. But in order to have a story I need to live a little more, and maybe that's where my main frustration comes from: I don't know exactly how to change who I am to make myself a better person.
But maybe my expectations are just too high. Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful for everything I have.. It's just that I see this life as the only one I have, that we are all dying, one day at a time. And if I'm missing opportunities and not taking advantage of every situation of every day, I feel as though I'm not living life to its full.
-I still don't have a job, but I feel there's no point in looking for one now because I move into school in about a month's time.. I used to have a job at the library but I quit it at the beginning of my senior year (September 2011) to focus more on school-related work and activities, and now I kind of regret that. I'm also not really doing a whole lot of fun summer activities with other people. I just wish I could spend my time being more productive. My favorite motto is probably: "work hard, rest hard," but right now I feel like I'm doing neither.
-I don't feel confident that my current college major is right for me. I'm majoring in a field called Engineering Physics, and I plan (or have been planning, rather,) to be some sort of scientist (I definitely want to go to grad school). It's just annoying for me, because when I tell people my major, they think, "Oh, it's engineering!" and I'm like, "No, it's a science degree with an engineering background."
And I don't even know if that's what I want to do with my life, anyway.. I want to do something enjoyable, to have a job where I feel guilty when receiving a paycheck.. At the same time, though, I want to leave a legacy behind, do something so amazing in life that people will remember me...
-I also don't feel very confident that I picked the right university to attend.. I'm going to The Ohio State University, and let me just say that I don't really care at all for football. I do, however, care about making friends, because to me that's like basically the most important thing about college (and maybe life as well). I'll go to the games so that I can hang out with people, but I probably won't care too much for the games themselves. Another thing is that this university is kind of known for it's parties.. Like a said earlier, I love to socialize, but I simply don't drink or smoke. I don't have anything against people who do (to an extent, anyway,) but it's just something that I've never felt the need to do.
-I love my parents and all, but sometimes I just get annoyed. My mom has almost no respect for my privacy. Example: I was writing thank-you letters for several people who gave me gifts at my graduation party, and she read through all of them and even critiqued them without me knowing until after she did so... Not that I wrote anything I didn't want her to see, but it's just a little aggravating for me when things like this happen.
My dad, on the other hand, is basically a really boring person. He can crack a couple jokes here and there, but he has like no personality. He's an engineer, and a very smart person, but when I see myself going into an engineering field (I know I said earlier it's a science field, but technically speaking the degree is earned via the College of Engineering at my school), I get scared that I will lose social skills. Yes, I know it's funny to some and maybe a bad stereotype, but honestly, pretty much all engineers I've met just aren't.. adventurous and outgoing. I even shadowed an aerospace engineer who has his Ph.D and works for NASA, and even though he's a brilliant man, his personality is just.. 'meh,' for lack of better words.
Personally, I want to be the life of a group.. I want to be a leader. I don't want to spend 8 hours a day in a cubicle starring at a computer screen. I want to be, or at least contribute to, the life of a party; and I want to be known by people. I feel as though I don't want to be the best engineering or scientist that I can be (if that is what I want to do); rather, I want to be the best person that I can be. Is that a bad thing, to want to leave behind an impression for current and future generations? Or am I just trying to gain popularity for no real legitimate reason?
I just feel so much happier when I'm around people who are outgoing.. I wish I could be like them, to always have something to say or a story to share. But in order to have a story I need to live a little more, and maybe that's where my main frustration comes from: I don't know exactly how to change who I am to make myself a better person.
But maybe my expectations are just too high. Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful for everything I have.. It's just that I see this life as the only one I have, that we are all dying, one day at a time. And if I'm missing opportunities and not taking advantage of every situation of every day, I feel as though I'm not living life to its full.