The bastard really fucked up now.

[quote name='Prowler485' post='2793733' date='Apr 29 2010, 02:56 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:52 PM'][quote name='BeatriceTheGolden' post='2793715' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:51 PM']If you hate it so much, why don't you just get the fuck out?[/quote]Maybe since he's 16 and doesn't want to live on the streets? Maybe that's it...[/quote]Adoption?
Not sure if it's the same where ever he lives but you can move out when you're 16 to supported accommodation in England.[/quote]Welfare, group homes, charitable friends... How many years until you can get on student loans that will pay for rent? Get a job...

Unless of course, financial security outweighs your own happiness.

Or maybe being freed from your parents wouldn't actually make you happy? In that case, you are nothing but a spoiled brat...

[quote name='Arctic' post='2793736' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:56 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793724' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:54 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]
I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.
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So then if I'm a boss then I can beat the crap out of my employees when they make a mistake?
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I'm quite sure that you're looking at this the right way. Employees are different than children.

[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793762' date='Apr 29 2010, 09:05 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793736' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:56 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793724' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:54 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]
I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.
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So then if I'm a boss then I can beat the crap out of my employees when they make a mistake?
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I'm quite sure that you're looking at this the right way. Employees are different than children.
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So what makes children so worthy of being beaten, while adults are not? Putting aside the fact that a 16 year old boy is hardly a "child", wouldnt beating an adult when they do something wrong be more justified than beating a child? I mean they have been alive long enough to know right from wrong. A child is still learning those things.


Note: I'm not advocating violence in any way, just trying to make a point.

How much longer will this last?

[quote name='impizkit' post='2793788' date='Apr 29 2010, 09:17 PM']How much longer will this last?[/quote]

What are you adding to this conversation?

I don't think leaving your parent's house would be the right option either. It's not exactly fun to never have any contact with your father and make your life a lot tougher than it already is. Besides, I don't think society would be served best if all children who are having arguments with their parents moved out.

If you're not making this up (sorry, but some people do), call the youth welfare office (or whatever it's called at your place). Seriously.

If I were you I'd find a safe place to stay, like a friends or aunts or uncles and just move out of the house! Believe me when I say people like "your dad" do not change and they always think they're in the right! I lived in a car for almost a year because my family is a bunch of retarded, know nothing morons who will help out "drug addicts" and "screw ups" but are not willing to give someone who is trying to do something with their lives a chance. I've gone through so much BS with my family that I've pretty much written them all off and it doesn't bother me one bit! I've got my friends and a few people I consider to be my "Real" family and that's all that matters to me.

You must give respect to receive respect. Neither you or your father gave each other respect, so (I don't condone him hitting you) you received your punishment in an anger rage fit, and he could get his punishment in legal problem (or something). You were both in the wrong, and if neither one of you wants to be the bigger man and apologize, shit might as well hit the fan again.

Sure I have my own problems with my dad, but if I ever lose my temper in his house I apologize later (if it was my fault), and he apologizes in his own way without losing his dignity. His way is more sad [stupid].

Ok, new attempt to answer question.
There must be some obvious tension between you and your pops. Nobody calls their dad a retarded wutever no matter what they do. Also, no dad goes that crazy. So, perhaps there's a lot of something that was there before this happened, otherwise it wouldn't have happened. Investigate where your relationship went wrong with you dad.

Also, peeps are saying hitting is wrong or right or whatever.
I never got hit. Though I've never truly insulted my dad. I mean, I've messed around with him, insulting his computer skills and such, but never truly said anything to make him upset. He's never hit me because of it. So iunno... Heh, he aparently spanked me when I was like 2 (I don't remember) and he felt terrible about it so he never hit me or my brother again. Perhaps there should have been a better alternative to fliping out and doing that to you. Though if you're over like 5, it's pretty much hopeless to change any sort of habbit now.

Just kill he. Seriosly, draw your katana.

If you can´t. Return them doing something he doesn´t like. That motherfucker must receive their due, with or without blow. Steal to he something important for he.

There's never an excuse for violence against one's children; plain and simple. Resorting to the initiation of violence (unless is self-defence) only proves that one does not know any better and can think of no other, mature alternatives to acting like a wild monkey to get what they want.

If you have ways to remove yourself from the situation, I would do so.

My dad wouldn't dream of hitting me like that (probably because he knows I would electrocute him) if it was me I would have said "Will you tell that stupid bitch to stop touching me or I will flush her head down the toilet" then there it's all done no arguments or anything. You really need to call social services.

[quote name='Overman1977' post='2793928' date='Apr 29 2010, 10:38 PM']There's never an excuse for violence against one's children; plain and simple. Resorting to the initiation of violence (unless is self-defence) only proves that one does not know any better and can think of no other, mature alternatives to acting like a wild monkey to get what they want.

If you have ways to remove yourself from the situation, I would do so.[/quote]
This.
Hitting a child only teaches them that violence is ok and that if anyone does anything wrong even in the smallest they deserve to be punished severely. I wouldn't beat the crap out of my sister because she put 2 sugars in my tea instead of 1 (even though it is annoying), it's just wrong for such violence to happen.

Things you can do: Call authorities, Call child abuse program, Run away and report this to a police station (or local authority).


Things that can contradict this story: The picture of your right hand looks photoshoped, he hasnt reported this to the authotities, he doesnt have a bunch of hair torn out in the pic with his right hand, he could have pulled some of his hair out and took a pic, his hand might not have been able to heal like that unless he got taken to the hospital, if that much of his hand got ripped off he wouldt have finger stubbs.


If this is a true story i am greatly sorry for your tragedy and think you should call or go to the authorities right away. (sorry if it is true im just stating the facts in things that contradict the stort, ia m truly sorry if your story is true (very sorry if your story is true )

My dad hits me all the time..

Nevermind it looks like his fingers are missing in his youtube videos. Sorry dude you should really report that to the authorities or a neighbor or something.

But try not to stab him 'cause your life could be over before it's even begun.

nevermind. His dad may or may not abuse him but his dad definitely didnt cause the damage to his hand. He commented in one of his yourube videos that he has poland syndrome as a result having a partially undeveloped hand. (sorry that still sucks to have poland syndrome)



heres the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBJ8T89qlGg...feature=related

Off topic...


Wow! your really good at guitar It must be hard to play with your disability yet you still kick ass at it, keep up the good work

OK, that's too much!
Call the cops, or something!
In my country there's a phone number for underage people to call when they're abused like in your case, do some research on the internet, quick!