why are women so evil

Well still adjusting to seperated life. I was/am married to a woman I love. Life was great coming home to her and my step son everyday from work and school, seeing them first thing in the morning. Doing his homework with him everynight and fixing thier meals, I took it all for granted. What went wrong you ask? I married a recovering addict and once we got married, she completly dropped the recovering part and took me for everything. she cleaned out our savings, pawned everything she could get her hands on behind my back. We lost a lot of our stuff, and she took a lt of my stuff too. We split over her pills and I left the frunitre and appliances, not to mention the eletronics she either took and pawned, or I gave it to my step son, cause he shouldnt get punished cause hse fucked up. Like I said eletronics alone :

2 mp3 players
my 360
my psp
two of my TV's
one on my custom pc's
my tattoo eqipment
My Nokia N800
my iphone
my main DS (yes I have a back up)
my WII
my N64

now I am not a rich man by or even well off, i had just saved and lived very frugally for a long time. Now all of it was for nothing, i lost everything and barely get to see my step son. Know what the worst part is? I still love he and would be with her, I feel stupid and I would not let her near my eletronics, but to be honest that is all just stuff. I miss my family.


sorry about the rant, just needed to get it out today

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C
yep, stuff is just stuff. family is what matters. maybe you leaving is what she needs to get back on the road to recovery. don't give up. take care
 
dexmix
really sorry man... drugs are a terrible thing. I feel like if drugs were out of her life - she would realize what she's losing and try to pick up the pieces. my heart goes out to you.
 
Bob Evil
[quote name='comtois' post='1131509' date='May 6 2008, 08:17 PM']yep, stuff is just stuff. family is what matters. maybe you leaving is what she needs to get back on the road to recovery. don't give up. take care[/quote]

She's an addict, and all she cares about is feeding her addiction.

He is just a way for her to maintain her addiction.

Addicts prey upon the love and loyalty of friends and family ... they abuse and exploit it ...

At the end of the day, he has to look out for himself, and the child ...
 
solange82200
Damn, that really sucks. I used to be a drug addict myself, and I remember I used to use this one guy in particular for money all the time. Honestly though, I didn't really care about him. I'm not saying that this is the case with you, but look deep and wonder, does this woman really love you?

Being an addict makes you desperate, don't get me wrong, but deep down you are still the same person.
 
superkris
I think you overgeneralized here!!!

Not all woman are evil, drug addicts are.

It's like saying all man are stupid sex-obsessed pigs you can't trust just because my ex cheated on me!!
 
podunk1269
Just had to get it out, the worst part is she went back to her mom's and they enable her to do all the drugs she wants.
 
C
[quote name='thebobevil' post='1131515' date='May 6 2008, 03:21 PM'][quote name='comtois' post='1131509' date='May 6 2008, 08:17 PM']yep, stuff is just stuff. family is what matters. maybe you leaving is what she needs to get back on the road to recovery. don't give up. take care[/quote]

She's an addict, and all she cares about is feeding her addiction.

He is just a way for her to maintain her addiction.

Addicts prey upon the love and loyalty of friends and family ... they abuse and exploit it ...

At the end of the day, he has to look out for himself, and the child ...
[/quote]

i guess the bleeding heart liberal in me always has hope that people can change for the better. have hope.
 
Bob Evil
[quote name='podunk1269' post='1131522' date='May 6 2008, 08:23 PM']Just had to get it out, the worst part is she went back to her mom's and the enable her to do all the drugs she wants.[/quote]

I wish there was a quick-fix instant win solution for ya, bro ...
 
solange82200
Thebobevil is right. Please don't forget about the child. Get him away from her. Someone like that cannot be in charge of a little kid, they aren't in their right state of mind. Who knows, maybe one day when she is clean and sober she will fall in love with you and it will work out. But until that day comes (and it takes time, trust me, lots of time), she is only in love with her drugs. Take it from someone who knows
 
podunk1269
[quote name='thebobevil' post='1131524' date='May 6 2008, 03:24 PM'][quote name='podunk1269' post='1131522' date='May 6 2008, 08:23 PM']Just had to get it out, the worst part is she went back to her mom's and the enable her to do all the drugs she wants.[/quote]

I wish there was a quick-fix instant win solution for ya, bro ...
[/quote]
thanks man, I wish there was too. I am glad we became friends
 
podunk1269
I dont have a choice on getting the child away. They live with her mom and her mom has $$$$ to fight me. If I try again, I lose him completly.
 
solange82200
I understand, then it's for the best that you stay involved. Tell her *itch mom to spend some of that money getting her daughter in rehab!

Sorry about that, but I wish I could tell her that :)
 
podunk1269
Oh been there, send her to the summerhouse detox center in maimi, so she could "be in comfort" it was a fucking spa, not a detox. And her mom wont say shit cause if she cracks down, my wife will just move her and her child out of state to her dad's empty house. it is all fucked up
 
Bob Evil
[quote name='podunk1269' post='1131532' date='May 6 2008, 08:28 PM']I dont have a choice on getting the child away. They live with her mom and her mom has $$$$ to fight me. If I try again, I lose him completly.[/quote]

You just have to look after yourself then ... gonna be wicked hard, but it's the only long-term practical solution ...
 
Bob Evil
[quote name='Linkiboy' post='1131545' date='May 6 2008, 08:36 PM']Report her to the police for drug possession.[/quote]

Even if it were that simple, either CPS or her mom would get the kid ... he still loses ...
 
SleepingDragon
Man, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I'm going through a tough divorce myself, so I certainly can understand how you feel. Fortunately, though, I have been given full custody of my 3 daughters (I've been raising them pretty much by myself the past 5 years anyway), so that part has worked out. But the tough part is, after all the things she has put me threw, I still love her. And I have to be honest, it pisses me off! After everything that has happened, I shouldn't give a crap about her anymore, but I do.

The good part is, things get better. Keep getting up everyday, put one foot in front of the other, and slowly, things will get better. Good luck
 

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