It's also bc i'm effeminate sometimes, and i get a bit uncomfortable when people tell me to act like a man
that might be simply because you're young but to hell with what they say anywayIt's also bc i'm effeminate sometimes, and i get a bit uncomfortable when people tell me to act like a man
This was my exact reaction to finding out I was autistic in 2021... Everything just clicked. All my struggles, my hardships, my hyperfocus on things that interest me... It all made sense in a flood, and I was overwhelmed for a couple of weeks, just connecting all the dots.As far as being trans goes, it was pretty natural. Mostly just a conclusion based on the sum of its parts. Once I fully understood what being trans was, I was able to comfortably assess my own situation and how it applied to my life and my thoughts and feelings. It was more of an "Oh... huh. That explains a lot." moment than anything. Once I was able to hear more about what being transgender is and means, my identity was clear to me. There was no crisis nor was there any turmoil internally; I didn't try to deny it to myself. I was happy to finally "get it", if that makes sense.
Sexuality, though, is even more unremarkable. I'm attracted to women and always have been.
...But I always play as girls in video games... And cosplay as girl characters, and... and... OH GAWDI don't remember what made me realize I was trans, other than it sorta came to me at a young age at least partially thanks to playing as girls in video games awakening something in me.
And I'm gay because girls pretty.