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Hm...well, this is my opinion. First of all, that was a pretty stupid thing to confess about. You don't tell a girl you like her after she tells you she has a boyfriend. That's usually pretty common sense. Also, at your age, you should know better than in 3 weeks, you can't possibly fall in love with a person.

Second, you said you were tired of being just friends. Um, lol? You've only been "just friends" for three weeks. That's a very short period of time.

Either way, sorry this happened to you. Usually, all the good people are taken @_@;

You did the right thing, better to have it all out in the open. You could have waited and you would have had a better chance at "stealing" her, but that's no way to build a relationship. Who knows, she may just fall for you anyway. Good luck.

Right now, you are seeking love...When it comes, it will be a mutual thing.

I usually don't confess until I know I should.. and what I mean by that - I wait it out. 'cause it might be a fling that lasts for a month and then I find a new crush or something unrelated. This way, I don't regret not confessing.

I've dated a lot, but never really had many serious ones. I only make the serious ones count.

You can always be an ass though. -steal the girl from the boyfriend- cough. I wouldn't recommend that though. Just a warning to you from experience.

[quote name='Warcueid' post='1426689' date='Sep 26 2008, 11:59 PM']Second, you said you were tired of being just friends. Um, lol? You've only been "just friends" for three weeks. That's a very short period of time.[/quote]

thanks for the input guys. umm when i meant "just friends" i meant with girls i knew in general, not her -_-

Its OK it happened to me last year. There was some girl that I liked and I knew her for along time so stupid me I asked one of her friends to tell her that I liked her, she was a little in awe because she would never have thought that I liked her. Basically she screwed me over and went with some other guy a few days after I told her that I liked her... It's alright because I like someone else now and we are still friends.

I can relate.

Ive always been second place to everyone ive ever liked. for like 18 years.
@Warcueid: ya its true. Theyr all taken. But keep looking. Theres some one out there for you. Sometimes thats the only thing i have to fall back on and keep going.

Sorry the story following is a TEXT WALL.



Storytime:
So i last march i started hanging out with this girl regularly. Of course, she has a boy friend. Well i didnt say anything and things started to progress like she didnt even have a boyfriend. I kept telling myself that i couldnt let this go out of hand. and i wouldnt have except...
Our Choir took a bus trip( the most fun trip ever ) to NYC. thats a & hour Drive From Grove City. So what does she do? Asked me to be her "Seatmate". and being a stupid boy, I said dumbly, "Ya Sure".

Thats had did me in. I was Hooked. But during the trip something happened to me. i realized that the whole time she txtd her boyfriend, she was upset and angry, but as soon as her attention was off of him, she was happy.

This trend continued for the next few months too.

now usually, im ok with a girl i like having a bf, cause if i cant have them, im happy for them if they are happy with the one theyr with now. but that was not the case here. i began to hate her bf.

Another slight ray of hope peaked through the clouds. She was only in 10th grade and i was a senior, and her bf wasnt old enough to take her to prom. But guess who wanted to go.
And i guess her mom did like this bf character either. she was all over me taking her.

i was no way in hell going to step in take her. but (still) being a stupid boy, I taked over with her bf. he agreed and started making her life hell with his insecurity issues. I wanted him out of the picture. i wanted him dead. (thats harsh,but its What i imagined)

My serior Prom was amazing. She was the best looking girl there. and for all of you out there wondering, no we didnt do anything. Just dance.

Soooo. Summer rolled around and we still hung out like this bf didnt exist. we would txt all the time, pretty much like gf/bf and all my friends, hated her bf for what he was doing to her and all told her she needed to get out of that relationshp and be with me. i was put in my place one night when i was talking to a mutual friend( who is now on OCD meds) took what i sayd that night literally and told my girl like it was fact(all i sayd is just wat i told all of my other friend. i wanted her to dump her bf for me) That was our only misunderstanding in out whole 7 months "together". but it was a devastating one. she didnt txt me like before, she didnt hang out with me like before ( we still hung out, but not as much).

So i was put in my place. and i respected her and her bf's space again. I began to put her out of me mind, and i left for Jamaica on a mission trip and almost forgot about her.

i get back to about 4 txt messages from her mom(yes i txt her mom) saying she dumped him. well what was i supposed to do? i was leaving in three weeks for college. college is 6 hours away.

i was devistated.

But before i left she was taking about bringing me bck for homecoming.

.....Now i hear she has another date....

Life sucks. There is someone out there for me and you da_head. dont give up. i havent. Yet

i didn't actually read your blog, but i read about 30 words on this page so far and my best advice is: find one that is easy to trick! dumb girls are the best because you can tell them off the wall nonsense and they will believe it that way your free to do whatever you want. the good part is that hot girls are normally pretty stupid, the bad part is not all stupid girls are hot but hey i kinda like stupid ugly girls, different strokes for different folks ehh ??? :angry2:

srlz u r a fgt.
how cud u confezz to her liek tath?
taths suptid.




No, seriously, you shouldn't have confessed to her. With doing that you probably made her very sad because she doesn't want to break your heart. You should tell her that it's okay that she has got a bf and she shouldn't be sad because of you. And maybe, when she breaks up with him it is your chance to get her for yourself. D:

[quote name='Dominik93' post='1428184' date='Sep 27 2008, 04:14 PM']srlz u r a fgt.
how cud u confezz to her liek tath?
taths suptid.

You should tell her that it's okay that she has got a bf and she shouldn't be sad because of you. And maybe, when she breaks up with him it is your chance to get her for yourself. D:[/quote]


fuck her boyfriend, move on in dude !!! exploit his weaknesses and be her shoulder to cry on. tell her you we're just confused at first and then just completely deny the whole incident. women love that sort of thing.

@borzantor: yeah i read ur story man. that's much worse than my situation, lol i shouldn't complain haha. but yeah i no there's someone out there, o wellz.

[quote name='The Worst' post='1428161' date='Sep 27 2008, 04:07 PM']i didn't actually read your blog, but i read about 30 words on this page so far and my best advice is: find one that is easy to trick! dumb girls are the best because you can tell them off the wall nonsense and they will believe it that way your free to do whatever you want. the good part is that hot girls are normally pretty stupid, the bad part is not all stupid girls are hot but hey i kinda like stupid ugly girls, different strokes for different folks ehh ??? :angry2:[/quote]

haha, that's sum good advise. problem is, the "school" i go to within the university, is ONLY smart ppl (90+ avg to get in), so that doesn't rly work. unless i start hangin out with random ppl from the rest of the uni o.O?

[quote name='Dominik93' post='1428184' date='Sep 27 2008, 04:14 PM']srlz u r a fgt.
how cud u confezz to her liek tath?
taths suptid.




No, seriously, you shouldn't have confessed to her. With doing that you probably made her very sad because she doesn't want to break your heart. You should tell her that it's okay that she has got a bf and she shouldn't be sad because of you. And maybe, when she breaks up with him it is your chance to get her for yourself. D:[/quote]

lol harsh starting. yeah i no i shouldn't have confessed, and it would make her sad. why did i do it? i was bein selfish. i wanted her to feel a little sting, even if it was minuscule compared to the one i was feeling. yeah i know it wasn't the right thing to do, but w/e i'll get things back on track. steal her away? well i guess my only chance is for the long distance relationship to fail. in this situation it can either fail do to lack of communication, or strengthen due to longing for each other (if u no wat i mean), so yea i'll c wat happens. we'll be in the same uni for 4 yrs (assumin i don't fail lol), so i'll c how it goes.

thx guys.

[quote name='The Worst' post='1428218' date='Sep 27 2008, 04:47 PM']fuck her boyfriend, move on in dude !!! exploit his weaknesses and be her shoulder to cry on. tell her you we're just confused at first and then just completely deny the whole incident. women love that sort of thing.[/quote]

um its not her bf that i wanna fu-, lol kidding. yeah the thing is, the dude's in china o.o. how am i supposed to exposes his weaknesses when i don't no anything about him rofl. and wat do u mean exactly by "tell her you we're just confused at first and then just completely deny the whole incident"? care to elaborate?

EDIT: sry double post, thought it would merge :S

i mean say that you don't like her but act like you do. if he's in China then that is is his weakness !!! she get's lonely at night just like the rest of emm, tell her that you like to cuddle, but do it while talking about another girl ex. "aww shucks, i'd really like to spoon with suzy! i just love to cuddle."

[quote name='da_head' post='1428254' date='Sep 27 2008, 04:56 PM']@borzantor: yeah i read ur story man. that's much worse than my situation, lol i shouldn't complain haha. but yeah i no there's someone out there, o wellz.[/quote]

ha thanks for taking the time. and its all about perspective. i know how your situation feels. ive had that happen to.

its just the way it goes.
Now i dont know about you personally,and i am not bragging here, but im a pretty good kid with my morals in order. If a girl sees your who you say you are, they are most likely going to notice that. they wont forget about you as easily as theyr ex that was just there for sex. Im a christian, so when I make a statement I will more often than not, alow my integrity to show through when things get dicey. You can turn heads like that. i know she saw something in me, but was afraid of finding someone here at school. understandable. i guess im just no ready.