AITA for not showing up to my own funeral?

So I (74M) was recently hit by a car (2014 Honda) and died. My wife (5F) organized me a funeral (cost $2747) without asking me (74M) at all. I (74M) was unable to make it because I (74M) was dead (17 days). At the funeral I heard my dad (15M) and other family members talking about how they wish I could be there and now I feel bad for not showing up. AITA?
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If it was one of those "surprise I am not dead" funerals then yes.

If it was one of those ones where you know someone you dislike will show up and you are waiting several hundred metres away with a sniper rifle then no.

If it was one of those fake your own death to save those you love then it would kind of defeat the point, and wacky disguise antics are a different one.
 
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ESH.

Communication is key to a healthy, successful relationship and it does not seem to be present in your marriage AT ALL. You and your wife both failed each other -- I understand you're upset that she would organize a pricey event without having discussed it with you, but don't forget that you were the one who originally died without telling anyone first.

Also, your father and other family members suck for talking behind your back when they thought you couldn't hear them.

Edit: Time to delete the gym, hit the lawyer, and Facebook it up, my friend.
 
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