Scared

My BF just tried to commit suicide today, by taking a bottle of his pill meds and upending it in his mouth. And when the Police came, they treated this as a felony crime and accused me of trying to kill him. I said "BULLSHIT"!. :angry::angry::angry::angry::angry: All I did was turn away from him for a second to clean up his bowel mess he made. After all said and done, they finally took him to the hospital. I am left here tramatized by what has transpired. :wtf: Thank you all for listening to me.
  • Like
  • Sad
Reactions: JuanMena, kineticUk, BlazeMasterBM and 5 others

Comments

R
I'm not even going to speculate how they came to that conclusion despite seeing the state you were in, but I would ask whether you have cause to be legally concerned of said allegations.

If so, then I suggest you ready yourself with some legal counsel for the worst-case scenario.
It's always a hassle to get into litigation, but from experience I can tell you it's better to be prepared than on the back foot.

All the best and here's to the day getting better for you.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 3 people
Magsor
No matter how bad of a day you can have, morning always come. I hope your boyfriend finds the help that he needs.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 3 people
AncientBoi
Thanks guy. I gotta get myself together right now. A Bad Day indeed. :sad: the worst of it is, not knowing why he tried.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2 people
godreborn
yeah, I hope he gets the help he needs, maybe some counseling. I don't know why they might think you had something to do with it, but I do know that the police take people who are suicidal very seriously. they usually take the person to the hospital for a mental health evaluation, then the person has to stay for a few days while he or she is monitored. I've been that depressed before myself, and fast forward to today, I'm on disability for mental health reasons.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2 people
nWo
Shit. When someone hits the suicide button, it's really hard to take them back to reality. Please, keep all eyes on him, give him support and help. But at the same time, there are some suicidal people who got common sense, and some other "type" that are just plain nuts. If its the later, help but you must go away as soon as possible. But the help is something that everyone with those issues need and a lot of it.

It is very sad. I really hope that things get better soon. Reach for help and do all you can but keep in mind that YOU are the priority before helping anyone else. You must not sacrifice your well being for the well being of others first.

Hope it all remains in a sour memory and everything gets better. Honest. Blessings.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 4 people
JaapDaniels
that's fucked up.
don't lose yourself, try getting your boy to talk what triggered him. if he wants, then help him get professional help from a shrink or docter.
keep in mind whatever he does and whatever he's gonna say, it's he who does these things you didn't put him there.
whatever the reason he's giving, it's his observation, that doesn't need to be the truth.
keep it together, and don't go into the what if spiral thinking.
hope you'll both get better soon
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2 people
AncientBoi
Still angry at the cops, using a felony entry tactic on a attempted suicide call? I'm watching him and I'm afraid I can't leave to get groceries. He's a bit incoherent at the moment. :(
 
JaapDaniels
@OldBoi probably because the centrall communicated in a hurry in a hurry people tend to forget mentioning detailles, if the cops just got an adress of interest , i'd get it they use such a tactic.
still you're right to be angry, it made a bad situation worse.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 1 person

Blog entry information

Author
AncientBoi
Views
564
Comments
22
Last update

More entries in Personal Blogs

More entries from AncientBoi

Share this entry

General chit-chat
Help Users
  • No one is chatting at the moment.
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    oh man, that always goes great!
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    im sure half the responses won't be literal racial slurs or "drop table" jokes
  • Veho @ Veho:
    Look, it's China. They know what it's like when you give a poll to half a billion trolls.
     +1
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    How much dollar do you think it is?
  • Veho @ Veho:
    ONE MILLION DOLLA
     +1
  • Veho @ Veho:
    I know the pricing of electronics nowadays isn't "how much it actually costs" but "how much we can get away with", but putting up a poll is just cynical.
     +1
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Probably $150 someone said Anbernic said around the same price as rg556
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    you know which game i wish they would rerelease
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    sonic unleashed
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Make it a happy meal toy
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    that game's engine is really fucking intensive so it runs like literal shit on xbox 360 and ps3
  • Veho @ Veho:
    Nah I'm getting value creep again. I look at a $50 console "but for just a few more dollars you could get XYZ" and I end up considering the Steam Deck.
     +1
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    like the lighting in that game was genuinely so good
  • Veho @ Veho:
    Not getting dragged into that again.
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    i dont get why they didn't port the one game that ran the worst on consoles, to pc
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    like you port everything to pc except the one game where it would make the most sense. why. what do you gain from this
  • Julie_Pilgrim @ Julie_Pilgrim:
    is sega just personally fucking with me? are they laughing while watching me through my kinect camera as i get up to restart my xbox for the third time because the game froze again
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Buy handhelds from five below better quality
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Valve probably going to do another refresh of the deck this fall with rog ally like specs tbh
     +1
  • Veho @ Veho:
    A smaller form factor would be nice too.
     +1
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    A shield portable 2 would be nice aye Nvidia
     +2
  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    The big leap in all things tech is when carbon based chips start hitting.
  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carbon_nanotube_computer
  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    https://news.mit.edu/2019/carbon-nanotubes-microprocessor-0828
  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Longer battery life cooler temps and faster! What's not to like lol (probably expensive as hell)
    Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo: Longer battery life cooler temps and faster! What's not to like lol (probably expensive as hell)