The bastard really fucked up now.

Kid, if I was you, I'd call child services (I don't know if they have this where you live, but they do in the US)

When you are freed from your parents, bad people become easier to deal with, because you can just call the cops.

I think your dad defiantly has an anger issue, but personally, I wouldn't entice him by calling him out like that, its just gonna make things worse.

But seriously call the authorities, he sounds abusive...

I've gotta go to bed. I'll check this thread again tomorrow. PM me if you want to discuss it or rant about it Ignore trolls in the thread..

just hang in there for now

could people TRY not to act like sociopaths just because you're on the internet and its anonymous? You know how you're a person, with thoughts n feelings n shit? So are all the other people who post here.

[quote name='Prowler485' post='2793372' date='Apr 29 2010, 11:47 AM'][quote name='Demonbart' post='2793348' date='Apr 29 2010, 05:37 PM']Now tell me, am I really a whining, stuck up kid that should learn normal manners or is my father a retard that hits me over the head and pulls my hair out if I don't completely agree with what he says and treat him like he's the motherfucking king?[/quote]You are a whining, stuck up kid that should learn normal manners.
If you wasn't, you wouldn't be in this crap right now.

*snip

Win.
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Is that Prowler trollin in a serious thread?
I am disappoint.

[quote name='Popid' post='2793408' date='Apr 29 2010, 12:10 PM']you guys are tossers. To the OP: that's seriously fucked. Sorry you're in that situation. Do you have relatives/someone you can trust to discuss it with? that you know in person? That kind of abuse is uncalled for regardless of what you said - or anything u COULD say...All you losers on here who say to shut up, or whatever else, I'd like to see how you'd be feeling right now if it had happened to you. Oh but it wouldn't have happened to you, because you've learnt how to STFU and let people emotionally trample you and just take it, so it doesn't escalate - awesome, that'll work forever

I think before this happens again you need to speak to somebody in person who you can trust, talk it over with them in all its aspects and take it from there..[/quote]
This.
I know you've said you don't really have any adults you can really trust, but there must be someone you can call, or some service that you can talk to to help you out. We can't do much here, so you've gotta talk to someone you at least know will listen to you.

try to discuss this with your mom or somebody else in your family. You know this kinda stuff is illegal in the Netherlands. And, personally, the last thing i'd do is call child protection services. I know a girl who is also slapped quiet often by her parents. She's been moved out, and i dunno if you want to do that. It really sucks, I used to live near one of the homes where you go to when you're moved out, and the'll get all the old stuff from other people.

good luck mate, and just try to talk to people and let your anger get away. Usually helps a lot. PM me if you want to keep me updated (can be in Dutch, if you'd like)

This sounds made up for attention, thats just my thought. If not, suck it up and make nice until you are old enough to get out and never speak to him again. You deserve better unless there is more to the story than what we are hearing.

[quote name='bnwchbammer' post='2793479' date='Apr 29 2010, 06:52 PM']Is that Prowler trollin in a serious thread?
I am disappoint.[/quote]I'm not trolling, it's what I am thinking.
I don't give more sympathy if people have a disability, which looks like everyone is doing.

Somewhere along the lines, he did something to make his dad upset with him.
Either way, doesn't look anything serious because your dad acted like that because of what you did.
Just think, if you didn't shout, if you told your sister to stop nicely, what do you think would of happened?

[quote name='Prowler485' post='2793570' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:31 PM']Just think, if you didn't shout, if you told your sister to stop nicely, what do you think would of happened?[/quote]
Oh, come on.

I personally wouldn't take the handicap in consideration at all. Regardless of in how much pain you are, for parents it doesn't matter why you shout; it's just that you shout.

What your saying here is that, in the end, this was all Demonbart's fault because he didn't do what the perfect person would do? That doesn't make any sense. If his sister was so perfect, she wouldn't have touched him the first place. Does this mean that Demonbart can now go and beat his sister up because she touched him? That wouldn't have happened if she hadn't after all...

The problem here is that Demonbart is in puberty and probably really annoying to his father. His father has every right to punish him. But hitting someone, spitting in his face and pulling his hairs out has nothing to do with punishment anymore.

In the end, I would say Demonbart doesn't show enough respect to his father and overreacts. Still, he is just a child. His father doesn't exactly give a good example. If he wants his son to behave, he should start behaving himself as well.

I don't think a gaming forum is the best place to ask advice... I understand it's easier to speak with totally anonymous people, but we're not psychologist, so we may give you wrong or not accurate advices. You should ask someone with more experience.

Okay, Demonbart, you were fucked up for calling your dad a fat retarded hypocrite.

Your dad was wrong for going apeshit on you.


Now i'm not saying what your dad did WASN'T wrong, but calling him what you did was extremely disrespectful. Again, i'm not saying what he did was right, but he sounds like he had enough of your whiny disrespectful bullshit and flipped out.

I'd call for help. Seriously. I, unlike others, do care whether people have some kind of handicap or not. I understand why you shouted like that, it's only normal to do so out of frustration, but what your dad did because of that is just wrong. It's okay for him to get angry, but he should never do something like that to a child, not even to a grown-up. Pulling out someone's hair is bad. It hurts like hell. And in your case, you already are in a lot of pain...

So, you made a thread on the internet instead of calling an agency that specializes in this sort of thing?

Nice going.

If you hate it so much, why don't you just get the fuck out?

[quote name='Popid' post='2793438' date='Apr 29 2010, 01:26 PM']do you have a school counsellor or somebody like that? Or a teacher you like and trust. Or perhaps your best friend's parent(s) could be someone that you could speak to (perhaps with your friend by your side) about the situation and they could help you find another adult who could take it from there? I think what your dad did is completely out of line and unacceptable, and if you believe it will happen again then I think you need to do something about it. You do always have the option of calling the police if it ever happens and gets completely out of hand, but I don't know how much good they'll be, esp in the long run. So, discussion with an adult who can properly assess the situation and how to deal with it is probably the best bet..[/quote]
I was about to say this but somebody already said it for me. QFT.

I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.

[quote name='BeatriceTheGolden' post='2793715' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:51 PM']If you hate it so much, why don't you just get the fuck out?[/quote]
Maybe since he's 16 and doesn't want to live on the streets? Maybe that's it...

[quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]

I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.

[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793713' date='Apr 29 2010, 09:51 PM']So, you made a thread on the internet instead of calling an agency that specializes in this sort of thing?

Nice going.[/quote]
You know, it's not that easy to admit that sort of things.

[quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]Good luck if and when you get kids.

[quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:52 PM'][quote name='BeatriceTheGolden' post='2793715' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:51 PM']If you hate it so much, why don't you just get the fuck out?[/quote]
Maybe since he's 16 and doesn't want to live on the streets? Maybe that's it...
[/quote]Adoption?
Not sure if it's the same where ever he lives but you can move out when you're 16 to supported accommodation in England.

Parents can hit kids, but not as hard as Demonbart's dad...

[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793724' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:54 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]
I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.
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So then if I'm a boss then I can beat the crap out of my employees when they make a mistake?

[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793724' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:54 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]

I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.
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To be fair, there are many many different consequences (many more effective) to be had without resorting to physical. There is a difference between a consequence and punishment. getting physical with a child is in no shape or form relative to the actions of the child. It is a punishment plain and simple.

[quote name='dudeonline' post='2793738' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:58 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='2793724' date='Apr 29 2010, 08:54 PM'][quote name='Arctic' post='2793718' date='Apr 29 2010, 03:52 PM']I don't think a parent should ever hit a kid no matter what the kid does.[/quote]

I highly disagree with this, as I've seen what can happen when children can do shit with no such consequences.
[/quote]
To be fair, there are many many different consequences (many more effective) to be had without resorting to physical. There is a difference between a consequence and punishment. getting physical with a child is in no shape or form relative to the actions of the child. It is a punishment plain and simple.
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This. I never talked back to my parents and they never hit me.