Am I over-reacting?

Tell her that the guy messaged you again while you were checking the 'Temp and said something about earlier, so you scrolled up and saw the chat.

Definitely say something to her. If you don't say anything, you're just going to be more and more angry/upset.

Joking or not, that's not cool.

[quote name='Hells Malice' post='3674476' date='May 29 2011, 11:06 PM']Can I be supremely blunt and say she sounds like a slut?
Sorry. That's...just exactly what that sounds like. I'm not the type to get jealous over stupid shit, but something like that definitely doesn't qualify as stupid shit. That goes a little beyond "playing around".[/quote]
I'm gonna have to agree. Normal people in relationships usually don't talk about things such as that to others to whom they may have sexual emotions towards yet are not in a official relationship with.

Ironic; she and I just had a huge fight about sex.

Just confront her before the pain consumes you. If you keep it inside it will only hurt you, talk it out if shes cheating leave her it might hurt badly but in the end its for the best.

u need to confront her and get a damn good explanation

anything short of a damn good explanation I think u shouldn't waste anymore time with her

I was in a 4 yr relationship with ex #1, then a 3-yr relationship with ex #2... I was with my current girl for <1yr before proposing. One thing I can say for sure, is that when it's the right person, all the stupid little games just don't come up. Your situation sounds like high school drama, and whether ur that age or not, u don't need that shit. So unless there's a damn good explanation, I would suggest u don't waste any more time with her... don't make the same mistake I did with my 2 ex's and spend waaaaay too many years of your youth chained down to bad women

[quote name='sonknuck23' post='3674559' date='May 30 2011, 06:15 AM']Ironic; she and I just had a huge fight about sex.[/quote]
Land the finishing blow, she doesn't sound like a keeper. How old is she btw?

But you have to remember, what goes around comes around.

[quote name='machomuu' post='3674524' date='May 29 2011, 10:45 PM'][quote name='Hells Malice' post='3674476' date='May 29 2011, 11:06 PM']Can I be supremely blunt and say she sounds like a slut?
Sorry. That's...just exactly what that sounds like. I'm not the type to get jealous over stupid shit, but something like that definitely doesn't qualify as stupid shit. That goes a little beyond "playing around".[/quote]
I'm gonna have to agree. Normal people in relationships usually don't talk about things such as that to others to whom they may have sexual emotions towards yet are not in a official relationship with.
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I'd have to agree with these two. That's definitely not a normal conversation, jokingly or not. If it really was a joke, she should have told you about it out of sheer honesty. It'd certainly cut down the awkwardness later. I'd most definitely confront her, though. Especially if it's eating you up inside.

If you choose to stay with her and it happens again: Print out the conversation, make her a nice dinner, tell her you have a surprise for her and to cover her eyes, present her with the conversation and tell her to open them.
My sister did that and the guy confessed all in a great amount of stutters

Confront her. Definitely the best course of action right now. If she is cheating on you, then one of the only courses of action is to break up. However, last time I checked you two seemed to have a healthy relationship. If this is the case, a sit down and talk session centered around needs will help. I know from experience that women can and will be frustrating and confusing.

[quote name='imshortandrad' post='3674719' date='May 30 2011, 08:03 AM']But you have to remember, what goes around comes around.[/quote]

Are you talking about herpes or karma?


because both fit.

[quote name='Hells Malice' post='3674900' date='May 30 2011, 11:02 AM'][quote name='imshortandrad' post='3674719' date='May 30 2011, 08:03 AM']But you have to remember, what goes around comes around.[/quote]

Are you talking about herpes or karma?


because both fit.
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Karma.