Am I overreacting?

[Wabsta]

Argh, I'm getting more and more anoyed by my roommate.

Yesterday, I went to bed pretty early, cause I had to get up early today.
One mate of use was at our house, and I asked him, are you gonna use my computer now that I'm off to bed?
Yes he said, otherwise he would turn it off.

So, I didn't turn off my PC.
Anyway, this morning, I woke up, and see both PC's still on.
If I was living at my parents, I wouldn't really care.

But since I'm also paying for the power, I was pretty pissed, to see that they were both turned on. I mean, how fucking hard is it to turn off a PC when not using it?
Then my roommate responded with "Oh come on, we forgot to turn them off, and hey, I'm not whining when you keep your PC on all night to download stuff"
On which I responded, that it's pretty much less of a waste when the PC is actually doing stuff then just being on.

And now I'm the whining bitch. Great. That's the problem, if I say anything about stuff, he just doesn't take me serious.
Also, he doesn't clean anything. He never vacuums the place, or just cleans some mess that's lying around. Well he does, if I fucking tell him. Which also makes me a whining bitch.

I really feel like just kicking him out. That's how anoyed I get by him.
But yea, then I will always be the whining bitch. And I don't think we can be friends or anything then anymore, I assume he would be pretty pissed...

So, am I overreacting and should I stop being a bitch?

 

[Ritsuki]

No. One of my friend is like that. Everytime we go somewhere on vacation, he's the only one who never do the dishes, cook,... And we're always whining about that. You're right, he's annoying. Maybe you should talk about that with him in a serious manner instead of "shouting" on him. Try to educate him, and explain to him how important it is for everyone to do some chores, and to save electricity. But do not give up.

 

[431unknown]

Who pays the electric bill?

 

[Wabsta]

No. One of my friend is like that. Everytime we go somewhere on vacation, he's the only one who never do the dishes, cook,... And we're always whining about that. You're right, he's annoying. Maybe you should talk about that with him in a serious manner instead of "shouting" on him. Try to educate him, and explain to him how important it is for everyone to do some chores, and to save electricity. But do not give up.

Hmm, I could try, I doubt he would take me serious tho..

And @ 431unknown:
We both do, split in half.

 

[431unknown]

And @ 431unknown:
We both do, split in half.

I'd probably not bitch about that then, but any trash that is his lying around would find it's way to his bed.

 

[Wabsta]

And @ 431unknown:
We both do, split in half.

I'd probably nit bitch about that then, but any trash that is his lying around would find it's way to his bed.

Well, for example, if the PC's, turned on all night, would cost us 5euro's.
Then ofcourse, he also pays for the power, so I shouldn't whine. But meanwhile, I'm also paying 2,50 for something useless..

And about the trash, if I would, I'd probably get "Well why don't you clean it then?"
But I'm a bit through with doing most of the cleaning, and him doing nothing.

 

[CookiesMilk]

Anyway, this morning, I woke up, and see both PC's still on.
If I was living at my parents, I wouldn't really care.

Why!?

You think it's okay to waste your parents' money?

 

[Wabsta]

Anyway, this morning, I woke up, and see both PC's still on.
If I was living at my parents, I wouldn't really care.

Why!?

You think it's okay to waste your parents' money?

Because I'm a hypocrite haha.
Cause, yea, now I have to pay it myself

 

[Saken]

Kick him out. Literally
That way you wont be seen as whiny or wimpy or anything

 

[Wabsta]

Kick him out. Literally
That way you wont be seen as whiny or wimpy or anything

That is, ofcourse, an option

 

[ShadowSoldier]

If he keeps his computers on all night, it could be a habit.

I NEVER turn my computers off. Hell when I go to my friends, I constantly forget to turn his off too. I feel bad for it, but it's a habit.