No I didn't forcefully inject gender roles into the conversation.
Yes, you did. I quoted the exact point where you did it. Nobody ever mentioned the user being a male or female. You did. It also seems like, up to a couple posts ago, that you still were suggesting that it is important. Are you changing your mind now?
Where in the post you are talking about did I meantion what genitals I do or don't have? I didn't so that is outright lies.
Though it wasn't absolutely direct, you made personal accounts of psychoanalysis you participated in in pre-op procedures of your transition. The insinuation is that genitals, at least, existed. You made it a topic.
Oh, then you talked about someone else having balls. Totally inappropriate.