How did you find out you were LGBTQIA+?

[AncientBoi]

Sometimes I feel that way too, apart from what I said in the other group forum. The thing is, by sexual attraction alone I'm like pansexual/omnisexual (depends on how you view those terms, some people think one is the other and vice versa), but personally I don't get many people close to me physicaly. So when I'm counting people I've been sexual with in my life its very few. So then it basically becomes demisexual I guess when it comes to interaction itself.

And how did I find out? Well, sexually I knew what gave me the boner(anything really, haha)....but eh at one point I had a boy crush, romantically I mean...and that's when I started to think I might be gay but then year later I felt the same towards a girl...so yea....that's all I have to say for now....any more details I feel like is for private conversation.

Post automatically merged: Jan 28, 2024

Btw someone I know (I won't say who right now) feels that the whole alphabet soup that is this "group" will soon include anyone who doesn't think of sexuality in a way like in Victorian times or something......

Welcome to our Community

boner I think I vaguely remember those thingys

 

[a_username_that_is_cool]

I watched Jaiden Animations "Being Not Straight" video and was like "Wait a minute.... I think I'm asexual"

 

[LeoTCK]

I had a few "asexual phases" I think too. When I generally was just not interested in any sexual stuff at all.

 

[AncientBoi]

I had a few "asexual phases" I think too. When I generally was just not interested in any sexual stuff at all.

Me.. well, I have no more love to give out, as my hubbie passed like 3-4 (?) years back. I have outlived my 6 hubbies and 1 wifey. Nope, No more love left in me. My Heart, Mind and Soul can't take.

 

[LeoTCK]

You had a wife? I thought you were 100 percent gay. Or was that to "hide" the fact, like some people do/did?

 

[Xdqwerty]

Talked with a few people about it

 

[linuxares]

Talked with a few people about it

Just to give you a proper suggestion.

You shouldn't talk with some people. It all depends on how you feel! Because some of those people you might have talked to will give you a confirmation bias.

 

[AncientBoi]

You had a wife? I thought you were 100 percent gay. Or was that to "hide" the fact, like some people do/did?

Nope. She knew. This is what happened when 2 friends went to Las Vegas (me n her), and woke up with a helatious hangover, looking at a piece of paper on the night stand.

Certificate of Marriage

And we still didn't know if we even consummated the marriage that night

 

[Xdqwerty]

Just to give you a proper suggestion.

You shouldn't talk with some people. It all depends on how you feel! Because some of those people you might have talked to will give you a confirmation bias.

They gave me those tips

 

[AncientBoi]

They gave me those tips

Tips? wtf? Tips on being GAY? WTf?

 

[Xdqwerty]

Tips? wtf? Tips on being GAY? WTf?

I meant to say advice

 

[linuxares]

I meant to say advice

Get advice from people in real life that works with these kind of things and not internet people.
I just give you this advice since I seen what you have written in the past.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Get advice from people in real life that works with these kind of things and not internet people.
I just give you this advice since I seen what you have written in the past.

Too shy for that

 

[LeoTCK]

Nope. She knew. This is what happened when 2 friends went to Las Vegas (me n her), and woke up with a helatious hangover, looking at a piece of paper on the night stand.

Certificate of Marriage

And we still didn't know if we even consummated the marriage that night

That's crazy...lol

 

[linuxares]

Too shy for that

Then email them... don't speak with tumblr-ets and twittertards.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Then email them... don't speak with tumblr-ets and twittertards.

I said i dont use tumblr nor twitter

 

[LeoTCK]

*facepalms* everyone always assumes they know everything, right?

 

[linuxares]

I said i dont use tumblr nor twitter

I didn't say you do. I just call the people you might spoken with to be that.

 

[Rolfie]

i think it just always seemed foreign to me that not everyone could be attracted to different genders or the same gender.

my gender is a bit confusing though, i don't think there's an easy way to describe how i feel about that. maybe demigirl

 

[The Catboy]

One day I woke up and said to my wife, “Human, I think I might be a femboy” and then started being a femboy